March 17, 2015

Spanked in SpanX (Finally!)

I have to admit that I have enjoyed wearing panties.  The Vanity Fair panties have a rather delicious texture and I love the erotic feeling from wearing them and Cora likes seeing me wearing them.  We both recognize the emphasis on our roles as submissive husband and Dominate wife.

We have also been amazed at the number of men who have expressed their own enjoyment in wearing panties, too.  The postings about our panty adventures have resulted in lots of comments and it seems there are many more of you out there than I ever would have guessed.  I seem to be in good company.

SpanX.  That's been quite a story.  As mentioned before, the first ones purchased turned out to bee too small for me but they are quite happy to occupy Cora's panty drawer.  (So to speak!)  The other pair of SpanX took over three weeks to get here, arriving only last Monday, but we were able to find a pair at a local department store at our local mall.

Last Wednesday we drove to the location of our tax accountant.  On the way back I suggested that we stop at our mall. Access from the freeway was quite good and would only add about 20 minutes to our trip. Previously, I had made inquiries of where SpanX panties could be obtained.  Turns out that they are available at Nordstrom's, one of the major department stores at our mall.

So  in we went and found them on the third floor.  Oh my, there were racks and racks of them.  We had no idea that the SpanX line is so large.  We finally located a pair similar to the ones we had ordered previously but in a larger size.  We made our purchase and headed home.

Now these are quite different from the VF panties previously purchased.  Very different.  They feel almost like a pantygirdle with long legs and a high waist.  Naturally, I asked Cora to 'break them in' and soon I was over her lap getting a dose of her Ebony Hairbrush and the OTK Spanking Paddle.  That was followed by a session bent over our kitchen table getting a substantial paddling.  Cora used several of her WAD's and I was getting my bottom quite toasted.
Cora Checking Our Her Spencer Paddle in Preparation to Paddling Me
"Come Here!  You're Getting a Well Deserved Paddling."
I know Cora was thoroughly enjoying herself and I could also tell that she was spanking me much harder than she used to.  Something about me wearing panties really brings out the spanker in her.  I must say that I rather liked getting spanked harder.  Naturally the panties or SpanX absorb some of the impact but its more than made up for by the intensity increase from my lovely wife.
Spanked in SpanX 'Power Panties'
Note That the Stepstool Gets Me Raised at a Better Height for Cora's Swats
SpanX Spanks
Today we made a quick trip to the grocery store.  I decided to wear the SpanX hoping that it would inspire Cora to paddle me upon our return.  Indeed she did paddle me.  It was not a long session but we did set up the camera and the photos attached here are 'hot' off the press.  Naturally, as I'm typing this text I am sitting rather gingerly.  But with a big grin!

Changed to the Leather Paddle
Cora's Determined Expression Says it All
It May Not Have Been a Long Session but Cora Seems Quite Satisfied with the Result

March 9, 2015

Spanking Spectacular - Part 2

Its been over two weeks since Cora took me on and administered an old fashined spanking: good and hard!  We posted photos from the first part of that spanking on the day of our fifth anniversary, February 24.  Those photos showed Cora delivering an Over-the-Knee spanking with her Ebony Hairbrush and her OTK Spanking Paddle.

Well, after getting my bottom thoroughly toasted by her, she then bent me over our kitchen table and applied several of her paddles to my already reddened posterior.  Here are a few photos from that session.

Cora's Rack: "So Many Choices!"
"One of My Favorites - The PurpleHeart"
"And the Reliable Spencer.  This'll Sting His Naughty Bottom"
"Yoo Hoo!  Time For Your Paddling!"
Starting with the PurpleHeart, Panties Still Up

Raising the Paddle Nice & High.  He'll Feel This One!

Panties Down, Bottom Red.  Gee, This is Too Much Fun!

Cora Lands a Good One

Finishing Up with the Spencer


Nice and Red.  Well Done, Don't You Think?
So that was over two weeks ago.  Lots happened since.  However, I'm probably due for another session with Cora's paddles, straps and hairbrushes.  In fact she just requested a blank 'Notice of Discipline' and a pen.

March 5, 2015

Panties, Panties and More Panties

Well, they finally arrived.  Actually they arrived a couple of days ago and even beat Amazon's earliest expected arrival date.  The order consisted of ten for Cora and a half dozen for me.

I'm already enjoying the pleasures of wearing them.  However, Cora has yet to 'break them in' with a spanking.  More to come.

Oh, and one of the pair of SpanX arrived too.  The other one  still shows 'Accepted at USPS Origin Sort Facility TETERBORO, NJ ' way back on February 23.  I guess they must be stuck behind a New Jersey bridge closure.
I think these will last us a while however it turns out the SpanX are a little small for me.  But not to worry as they fit Cora just fine.  I'll order another pair in a larger size.  That will open up the possibility of Spanked in SpanX by Cora wearing SpanX!


Just received the following good news from the Google Blogger team:

Dear Blogger User,

This week, you received an email telling you about some changes we were  
making to the Blogger Content Policy. In that email, we announced a change  
to Blogger's porn policy stating that blogs that distributed sexually  
explicit images or graphic nudity would be made private.

We've received lots of feedback about making a policy change that impacts  
longstanding blogs and the negative impact on individuals who post sexually  
explicit content to express their identities.

We appreciate the feedback. Instead of making this change, we will be  
maintaining our existing policies (

What this means for your blog:
Commercial porn will continue to be prohibited.
If you have pornographic or sexually explicit content on your blog, you  
must turn on the adult content setting  
( so a warning will  

If you don't have sexually explicit content on your blog and you're  
following the rest of the Blogger Content Policy  
(, you don't need to make any changes to  
your blog.

Thank you for your continued feedback,

The Blogger Team

Again, thanks to our fellow bloggers who made their thoughts known to the blogger group.  Our efforts got their attention and paid off!!!

March 1, 2015

Its Been Quite a Week

Wow!  Its been quite a week.  With all the issue with the Google blog policy and such.  We're really delighted to see that its behind us, at least for now.  And then there was the issues surrounding our purchase of panties but we did receive confirmation that most of them have been shipped!  And it appears that they will all arrive on Tuesday.  Finally!

And this will be the eighth post since February 20.  I can't remember a spell where we have posted this often.  And we still have yet to post part two of the 'Spanking Spectacular' and unless there more chaos from something like a Google policy issue, we'll post it in a few days..  Actually there will be a photo from that session to help illustrate what happened Friday afternoon.

It seems as though during the early hours of Friday morning, I pulled the covers off Cora.  Naturally she wasn't happy but grabbed another blanket that she keeps handy for just such an incident.  Seems as though I've done it before.

During our morning coffee discussions later in the morning, Cora informed me that I had earned a spanking for pulling the covers off of her.  OK, I won't disagree that I've earned a spanking from Cora.  After all that's part of our agreement as part of our FLR arrangement.

Sometimes, Cora will assign a session of her discipline and never follow through.  I guess she gets distracted with the events of the day.  However, I wanted to make sure that she didn't forget this one.
Cora's Line-Up of WAD's Ready for Action

We often take a quick nap in the afternoon and Friday was no exception.  Upon rising I took our dogs outside and then prepared for getting a spanking from Cora.  During this time, Cora was getting dressed for the evening.  It seemed like she was taking forever as I had lined up four of Cora's WAD's (Weapons of Ass Destruction - my Ass!) on our kitchen counter.  I had prepared myself by wearing a pair of black panties which Cora had handed down to me.
These are the Black Panties I was Wearing

Finally, she descended the stairs wearing a nice, tight pair of jeans and a top appropriate for the evening.  She found me bent over the table and the paddles ready for use.  I detected a bit of a giggle but she didn't hesitate.  She grabbed the first strap and laid the first stroke on my waiting bottom.  I didn't count but it wasn't long before she switched to the second strap and spanked me with that for a while.  Next she applied her PurpleHeart paddle, too but first pulled my panties down to expose my bare bottom.

Its interesting the different effects of leather versus wood.  However I was very aware that she had switched to the much heavier PurpleHeart paddle.  I hadn't looked back during the time I had received the straps from Cora but I did turn around to verify the fact that she was using the PurpleHeart.

Even if I say so myself, I think Cora has a fabulous figure.  And in turning my head to check out what was burning my bottom, I had a lovely view of Cora's curves.  Lovely indeed!  Oh, if  all women realized the power they hold in their curves.
The View From My Position as Spankee

Finally, Cora set the PurpleHeart down and picked up the Spencer.  I think she planned to make a point with that paddle and began spanking me a bit harder that previously.  I have described what its like getting paddled with the Spencer before but it never ceases to get my attention.  You see, the small holes in the Spencer create a whistling sound when swung with enough velocity.  And Cora was putting on the velocity.  I heard that characteristic whistle just before feeling its stinging punishment.  Stinging indeed.

I think she applied twelve of her best with the Spencer paddle but somewhere in the middle asked me if she was paddling me too hard.  I guess my ooo's, ahhh's and eeek's where telling her that she was definitely getting through to me.  I replied, "No" and she continued paddling me.
Photo from a Week Ago but Almost Identical to Friday Night's Paddling

Finally, she stopped and told me to get up.  I don't think the entire session took more than five minutes but I could sure feel the sting.  And she remarked, "That sure felt good to me and it sure was a stress reliever".

Now, there is a 'Smart-Assed Masochist' (SAM) in me and later that evening it decided to come out.  "Do you remember the question you asked me", I said to her.  "No, I don't", she replied.  "Well, you asked if you were paddling me too hard".  Her response was, "Oh, yes I remember and you said that I wasn't".

Then the SAM in me came out.  "Well, why didn't you ask the other question", I said.  She responded, "What do you mean?"  "Well why didn't you ask if you were not paddling me hard enough!", I said.

Her response was one of those looks only women are capable of.  I just smiled back.  So next time, I expect Cora will get her revenge for questioning her ability to paddle a naughty husband like me.  When that happens I'm sure I'll be thinking, "Should I have thought about being careful what I ask for?"

February 28, 2015

Shopping For Panties Should Be Simple - Right?


A week ago I posted about our little panty shopping trip and my discovery of the joys of wearing panties.  I've almost converted to a full time panty wearing guy.  However we still needed to round out our collection of new panties.  And even though I could wear the white pair we purchased during that panty shopping spree, I found that I really need the next size up.
Panties Originally Purchased For Me

Since we only found one pair of panties in black for Cora at the Mall, we thought we'd do a little shopping on-line.  We dialed into the web site of the store from which we had made our purchase earlier in the day.  It didn't take long to find the same ones on their site and we ordered about a half dozen for Cora in her preferred color black and one pair in white for me in one size larger.  We completed our purchase and expected that in five or six days the panties would arrive.


Tuesday morning I received notification that the order for Cora's black panties had been cancelled.  Apparently my single pair was still in stock.  I called the service number to confirm that Cora's panties were no longer available and to find out when my pair had been shipped.  Turns out that my pair had not even been shipped.  And this was almost a full week after placing our order.  It seemed to me that we'd have to go back to square one so I just cancelled the entire order.

Now I understand the logistics of their business but it seems like it took a long time for them to notify me that they were out of stock black panties.  And why did their web site show them as 'In Stock' when we visited their site??? No wonder some of the old established stores are struggling to stay in business.

OK, off to good old Amazon I went.  I found the same Vanity Fair panties in both sizes and both colors.  I decided to make sure Cora had a good supply and ordered ten pair for her.  I ordered a few for me and placed my order.  That was the three days ago.

I've always had good luck with Amazon and have found that things usually get shipped right away.  Usually.  But up until this morning our panty order was in some kind of limbo with the status showing 'Preparing for Shipment'.  This morning the status changed to 'Shipping Today' but so far we haven't received notification that they have actually shipped.  I can only hope that they will be on the way.  Until they arrive I'm just going to have to be happy with some of Cora's 'Hand-Me-Down' panties.

Oh, and in that same post I mentioned that I might try some 'SpanX' too.  Well, I did order two different pairs - a week ago!  I did receive the confirmation of shipping but the tracking seems very strange.  One pair shows 'arriving shipping partner facility' and the other 'arrived at the origin sort facility'.  So I'm not even sure they are on their way at all.

So is it just me or is the Universe in 'Park'? And why should shopping for panties be so difficult??????

February 27, 2015


This Just In:

Hermione just posted a link to an announcement from the Google blogger team.  The announcement reads as follows:

Hello everyone,

This week, we announced a change to Blogger’s porn policy. We’ve had a ton of feedback, in particular about the introduction of a retroactive change (some people have had accounts for 10+ years), but also about the negative impact on individuals who post sexually explicit content to express their identities. So rather than implement this change, we’ve decided to step up enforcement around our existing policy prohibiting commercial porn.  

Blog owners should continue to mark any blogs containing sexually explicit content as “adult” so that they can be placed behind an “adult content” warning page.

Bloggers whose content is consistent with this and other policies do not need to make any changes to their blogs.

Thank you for your continued feedback.  

The Blogger Team

Here is the link to the announcement:

Thanks to Hermione for posting this information and thanks to anyone who took the time to post on the blogger forum.  The influx of forum posts apparently resulted in changing their mind.

Hurray for us.

This Blog will now return to its regularly scheduled programming.   Really!!!

February 25, 2015

Censorship - A Follow-Up

It was just after noon on Monday (just two days ago) that we received the notification from the blogger group at Google announcing their new policy regarding the display of adult photos and videos, specifically "no longer allow blogs that contain sexually  explicit or graphic nude images or video"  Our post in response to their announcement contains the full text of their new policy.

Yesterday I spent some time on the blogger forum and found a flood of inquiries regarding this issue. Its obvious that their announcement stuck a nerve in many of us who post adult material.  Unfortunately there is very little specific answers to the questions posted.  Most importantly, the issue of what constitutes 'sexually explicit or graphic nude images'.  And who gets to make the decisions.  Instead, replies from the blogger representatives like, "Worry about what happens, when it happens.  The fact is, nobody know what will happen - because you have one month, to clean up your act.  And nobody knows what will happen, during that month." and "All of these blog owners have different questions - and not all of them have been answered, yet."

Perhaps the level of frustration was coming out from one of the reps when trying to answer what was the meaning of the terms as addressed in the new policy and the FAQ's came out with the following reply: "Unfortunately, too many people object to the FAQ, as "vague and useless", among other less objective terms.  Unfortunately, it's what we have to work with."

In many ways I felt sorry for the reps trying to answer questions beyond the resources available to them.  Obviously they were left with nothing but chaos and whomever made these policies did not provide them with details of how it was intended to be applied.  Indeed, "Unfortunately, it's what we have to work with"!!!???

I submitted my own question on the forum.  Hoping to elicit a real answer I held back my frustration and submitted a question with a positive attitude.

me  Level 1 (Spankedbywife)
Feb 24
Today is the fifth anniversary of our blog,  We have been hosting a blog that encourages people to adopt a Female Led Relationship (FLR) lifestyle.  We don't consider our content (all generated by us) to be graphic in nature however we do post photos of my wife spanking my bare bottom.  No genitals are displayed in these photos.
Your new policy does not well define, "sexually explicit or graphic nude images".  Also your new policy indicates that you'll still allow nudity presented in artistic, educational, documentary, or scientific contexts, or   where there are other substantial benefits to the public.
Which is it?  We like to think that our blog fits into some of the exception categories.
We have enjoyed five years of you providing a wonderful tool for us to use and all for free.  However, if we would be in violation of your new policy, its likely that we would go elsewhere.

Apparently it worked as later that evening I received the following reply:

B. YeeExpert - Google Products10 Best Answers
Feb 24 (12 hours ago)
Hi Ken,
Thanks for taking the time to post here. Just to let you know, while I'm not sure about your specific case the general guidelines are here: Blogger Content Policy
I'll also mention Blogger content policy change - porn is going away which is where we'll be posting updates/answers about common questions that users like you have.
From the information that you provided (I have not visited your blog), as long as you maintain the adult interstitial you probably can continue without needing to set your blog to private.  This is not a guarantee that the Blogger Team will take no action concerning your blog.
If you do decide to move to another platform we respect your decision and hope that you'll continue to freely express yourself.
Hope this helps you understand more, and sorry I can't offer more clarification.

(Note that the Bold Blue were hyperlinks in the forum reply but don't work here).

So I did receive a reply but it really didn't answer my questions.  The good news is that he did indicated that we can PROBABLY continue without being set to private.  However, later in the reply, he mentioned that "this is not a guarantee that the Blogger Team will take no action concerning your blog."

So at this time we plan to continue with our blog.  My bare bottom and all.  I guess that bare bottoms are not as bad as other parts of the anatomy.  After all mainstream TV sometimes shows the bare bottoms of babies.  Is my bottom that much different.  Well maybe a few pounds and that red color.

However just to have alternatives, we have secured 'WWW.SpankedbymyLady.Com'.  So we will be prepared to set up a website there and continue.  Or we could rely on Tumblr to post our more 'offensive' photos.  At this time it appears that almost anything goes there, but its still under control of someone else.

I've seen this issue pop up in several places including Hermione's Heart blog and a topic on FetLife.  I would invite any other bloggers to chime in.  Also the blogger forum is located here:!categories/blogger/something-is-broken/other/windows/chrome

Watch this space!

We now return this blog to its regularly scheduled program!